The society that we live in is one that puts a lot of emphasis on the values of reason, pragmatism and utilitarianism. With this comes the loss of understanding people in all their complexity. People are also beings that need emotions, fantasy, vulnerability. Humans have a deep need for connection with themselves; to live in its most natural and pure state, without defences but spontaneously. Our "true" self is like a child: curious, wants connection with others, and lives in