“To achieve a lasting loving bond, we have to be able to tune in to our deepest needs and longings and translate them into clear signals that help our lovers respond to us. We have to be able to accept love and to reciprocate. Above all, we have to recognize and accept the primal code of attachment rather than attempting to dismiss and bypass it. In many love relationships, attachment needs and fears are hidden agendas, directing the action but never being acknowledged. It is

We come to believe that, in a place where love exists between two people, there is not space for any negative emotions to co-exist, especially fear. In my work with couples, I have come to observe that people get really confused when they feel intense anger, disappointment, hurt, or even numbness toward the one that they once felt so surely love for. "Sometimes, I feel that I am going crazy! My mood swings are too much, at times I want to be closer to him and ask for reassura